Wednesday, March 14, 2018

How To Choose Memorial Stones For Your Loved Ones

By Scott Wagner


If you have recently lost a loved one you may be trying to find ways to create a lasting monument to their memory. Memorial stones can be a fantastic way to do so. If you are in the market for a stone here are some tips that you can use to make the selection process easier.

People have been marking the final resting places where their friends and family members have been buried. Normally, they will be placed in areas where they will be affected by the weather and can be worn down over time. Because of this, people are generally looking for options that will be able to still look beautiful and easy to read years after they have been put into place.

You may be shocked at the cost of funeral services and memorial markers are part of this cost. Unless you have made arrangements for a package that includes a stone you will need to pay for one. Knowing how much you can afford to spend will help you eliminate some possible options.

Once you know what your budget is you can start looking at different alternatives. There are many places that create these items. You may want to start by looking on their websites and seeing what they have to offer before you speak to anyone in person. That way you will have a few ideas and may not feel so overwhelmed by all of the choices that are available.

Unless your loved one has planned ahead it is likely that their memorial unit may not be ready in time for the funeral. Even if someone has a stone purchased and in place before hand it may not be engraved in time for any funeral services. Be prepared for this and ask the supplier what kind of time line you are looking at when ordering a tombstone.

The arrangements that the deceased has made will affect what kind of stone you can use. An increasing number of people are being cremated and then placed in a niche wall or other structure. While this is an excellent option for a final resting place it does mean that a larger tombstone or grave marker may not be possible.

Once you know the size of the stone you have to work with you may want to think about how decorative you want it to be. Some people want a plainer looking stone but others want one that has significant engravings that may relate to the life of the person who has passed on. If you have lost a child you may want to add images that are more childlike to capture the spirit of the deceased.

If you want a way to have a more elaborate memorial to someone than their resting place will allow you may want to consider sponsoring other items in the cemetery or memorial garden where they will be interred. Some individuals pay for plaques or pay to sponsor benches or other seats. These are usually marked with an individual's name, significant dates and information about who made the donation as well.




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